We’re limping to the end of the school year and the soccer season. Honestly, how is it that the school year is still going? It feels like Nico has been in fourth grade for 65469898 months.
Since he has been old enough to entertain himself (more or less), I stopped stressing about summers and days off. When Nico was little, it could be stressful trying to figure out what to do with him when he was out of school and I still had to work. Particularly during those times when I switched jobs and didn’t have any PTO or that one spring break when the guy I was working for was a real son of a bitch and didn’t “get” childcare issues. I said what I said.
For about the last 2 years though, I crave summer. During the school year, we have to get Nico up for school between 615-630. It was 6am when we lived in North Park. Then it went to 615 when we moved to Rogers Park. Back in March, we chopped the routine down further, so that we can get him up at 630 and still *mostly* make it to school on time (which starts at 730).
But because I don’t want Nico to be a surly bastard at school, it means we have to get him in bed by 930. I mean, I would prefer that he is in bed at 900. But sometimes a lot of times, we will settle in on the couch to watch a Cubs game and he’ll fall asleep there. Even so… right now we have three sports going on: judo on Mondays, soccer on Tuesdays and Thursdays, baseball on Wednesdays and Fridays, Me playing soccer on Wednesday night, Dave playing soccer on Friday night. Not to mention the myriad of baseball and soccer games that happen on the weekend. Most nights that we have some type of practice, we’re getting home at 8pm. Which means that we are whipping through the night, getting dinner, showers, homework done, etc.
But that is only because we have to have a dropdead time of 9-930 for bed. When Nico doesn’t have school the next day, nights are luxurious. We take our time with dinner… I don’t have to crack the whip at Nico and Dave. We can listen to music and read and go to bed when we are ready. Sometimes, if Dave is still working and Nico isn’t ready to sleep… I’ll go to bed when I am tired. Or early if I want to catch the gym in the morning.
In my opinion, we don’t talk enough about how much of a beat down the school year is for parents.
In any case, this is the first year that we haven’t signed Nico up for park district summer camp. The first two years, he was really into it. But he’s nine now. And has a play station, ipad, ipod touch. And wifi. And a dad that works from home. So, we have had progressively more resistance to going to summer camp… which I don’t really blame him for. I would be the same, particularly since some of most relaxing times involve laying on the couch reading stuff on my phone.
We have some plans though… Nico would like to do a lot more crafting this summer. Which is absolutely fine with me. We need to overhaul his room and I want to get a crafting nook/work space in his room that I can just stock with stuff from my craft closet. And stuff he wants to learn to do. Also, despite the fact that I seem like I am on him all the time to stop being a dickhead about stuff, he is actually fairly mature. I would be proud to pop into any pottery studio or any place that is doing craft stuff with him and I think he’d be all in.
Some of the things we’d like to do this summer:
- Do some of the crafts on 5 minute crafts (Nico and Jessi).
- Learn to paint with water colors (Nico and Jessi).
- Practice french (Nico).
- Piano or guitar lessons (Nico).
- Get a planner set up for next year with quotes, pics, etc (Nico).
- Learn to use a camping stove (Jessi).
- Lake Michigan Circle Tour (Jessi, Dave, and Nico).
- Craft nook for Nico’s room (Nico and Jessi).
- Purge craft closet (Jessi).
- Lego robotics lessons (Jessi and Nico).
I think this has the makings of a fun summer!