My brother got married.
THAT is a weird sentence to write. Only because he was so anti for so long, it was like, “Yeah, we get it, you don’t want to get married.” But he did. He found a sweet girl that puts up with his shit.
It is funny to type that. Because he’s actually a nice person to live with… he’s super considerate and pulls his weight with stuff. At least he did on the few occasions that he has lived with us. Of course, maybe he knows I would put the hammer on him if tried NOT pulling his weight. It’s hard to say really.
In any case, they decided to get married. She is from Germany/Italy, and her family couldn’t make it. And JJ is anti, as we’ve discussed, so it was small. Just us and our Washington Aunt Judy. Plus one of JJ’s friends.
JJ works in marine carpentry; right now he is working on the Swiftsure, the oldest remaining lightship. Which is really cool. I got to tour the old boat when I got to town. Really kind of annoyed I couldn’t get a t-shirt or a coffee cup or something. Can you imagine it on swag? It would be brilliant!
The next day, we headed to Pike’s Place for flowers and to walk around. I haven’t been in over 20 years, so it was cool to see it. Still still still love buckets of flowers. Honestly, I could live my whole life and never get tired of buckets of daffodils, lillies and tulips.
Nicole and I were also on the prowl for gifts for our kids. I hit the jackpot with a complete set of baseball cards from 1989. Nico was all in on that, you can bet.
JJ’s soon to be mother in law treated us to a fancy dinner the night before at a place on the lake. Like an idiot, I didn’t bring any other jackets with me to Seattle. I had my black adidas travel jacket, but that was it. And it rained a lot… so… I ended up buying a windbreaker from target to keep the rain off of me. But it meant that I went to dinner looking like a hick that doesn’t know how to dress for fancy restaurants.
I have decided that my sister is the Barney Stinson of us kids. She photographs well and always looks like a million bucks. For traveling, she throws on Adidas trainers and a FSU hat over loose wavy hair and looks like an influencer on instagram. I wear a hat on a plane and people assume I am a man with poor manners. Also, I don’t know if my face is just permanently swollen, but you can pretty much never see my eyes (FAT… its fat, I just have a fat face?). Also, I have come to realize that my face isn’t very symmetrical. Due to my broken nose and my partially ground down teeth (from grinding my teeth when I sleep). What is kind of remarkable is that I don’t even see how messed up my face is anymore. That is what my eyes have done. They have automatically applied a Facetune edit so I don’t notice on a daily basis on not symmetrical my face is. So, at least I have that going for me. SUUUUUUUCK.
The ceremony was a small justice of the peace deal on Sunday morning, which is something I can’t recommend enough. I didn’t realize it, but the court house was basically closed. They let us in for the ceremony, but no one else was there. So it was nice to be able to get pictures without random people being in the way.
After the ceremony we headed to fisherman’s terminal for some pictures. As he has done for 35 years of his life, JJ was intent on ruining a lot of them, with his face and his general “JJ-ness”. LOL Elena, joke’s on you, he is yours now!
While at Fisherman’s terminal, we had brunch at Chinook’s, which was fantastic. It was the best meal I had there.
After brunch, we scooted to a light house for a few more pictures before JJ whisked Elena off for a surprise honeymoon. He actually got in touch with her boss to get her a couple of days off so that they could go, which I thought was really cool.
When they split for that, Nicole and Aunt Judy and I went to the Chihuly exhibit, which is at the base of the Seattle Space Needle. It was pretty cool. I wasn’t REALLY interested in hitting the exhibit, but we had like 10 hours still my flight and 6 for Nicole’s so, we were like, “Sure”. I was blown away by the intricacies of the work. So, I was glad we went.