Where do I even start?
How about, do I even blog anymore?
2016 has been pretty crazy so far. I started the year by teaching two courses at the same time. That was a first for me. Yeah, its not like what regular tenure track faculty deal with (because they do it year round), but was a big deal- since I still had all my regular work duties to do.
I also had a perfect storm of things come together right at the end of the quarter: two work trips with prep for a conference sandwiched in between. It was pretty crazy.
We’re also moving.
The moving bit is bittersweet for me- mostly because it means we’re leaving our neighborhood, which we like. We like being as close as we are to Nico’s best friends (and soccer). But the neighborhood isn’t ideal. Despite the fact that we live in a city with good public transit, we rarely take it. It is actually more of a bother to take it than it is to drive. Plus our neighborhood, while great for families and friends and soccer, isn’t great on other things (like being close to coffee shops and public transit).
Also, our house is kinda shitty. Let’s be honest, friends who have actually visited it- it is kinda shitty. Like most landlords (as it seems), ours isn’t really interested in keeping the place up. The windows are old and drafty, the ac is weak, the floor in the basement is a mess, the dryer just developed a *new* squeak. We try to get the handy man guy to give the place some attention, but he doesn’t respond to our texts. It also doesn’t have a dishwasher. And our landlord raised our rent by $100 this year. That is huge.
So we started looking in February and found a place last month. We have paid the move-in fee and are going to sign the lease next week. Its in East Rogers park, just north of Loyola University. Rogers Park has some tough spots, but it looks like they are mostly west of where our place will be. Its a definite bump- I think I will be able to take public transit to work almost every day- which gets me reading and knitting more. In the summer I will mostly be commuting by bike- which will likely be easier.
The place is in a multipurpose building. Some shops are on the first floor, then apartments on the second and third. All the places for shops aren’t filled up yet- I am crossing my fingers that one will become a coffee shop, quilt shop, craft shop, candy shop, stationary store, or crossfit gym. That would make this place perfect. As of now, there is a boutique pet store/salon(?) and a massage therapist place.
The actual living space is a 3/2, all on one floor. It is smaller- it looks like I will be losing the girl cave. But it has more closets than the place we have now. And a dishwasher. At the age of 36 I will finally have a dishwasher. What will I even do with my life??? Nico’s school is a magnet school- so it won’t matter that we are moving (since we are staying in the city). Which is good- we are kind of in love with his school.
So now, we’re just packing and thinning out the stuff. That takes a lot of time.
It struck me today, that we are leaving Tallahassee- and it’s not all rainbows and butterflies.
Well, I made it here safely.
I left Tallahassee on Tuesday April 23rd and rolled into Chicago on the afternoon of the 24th. It was an easy drive, except for some hard rain I encountered leaving Louisville on Wednesday. I brought the Kia, loaded down with clothes, toiletries kitchen items and a few craft things. I got them all unpacked and into the house by Wednesday night.
The house has two stories and a basement. I moved all my clothes into one room upstairs and am sleeping in the other room (on an air mattress). I didnt do much last week, except figure out how to get to work and where the closest grocery is.
On Saturday I drove to Plainfield to get a firetruck bed for Nico. A tollbooth lady told me that I could pay with cash at my last tollbooth, I couldn’t. So, I can’t wait to see the ticket or the fine I will get for that. Should be good times. When I got back, I headed over to campus to video chat with the boys (since my internet at home isnt being installed until Thursday). On my my way out of there, I swung by the fiber arts store I found in Lincoln Park on my last go. I picked up some yarn for a hat for Nico (for Christmas). Saturday night, I went to Target to get a few food items.
I went to a benefit on Sunday for the Read/Write Library of Chicago. One of my friends/coworkers helped organize it. I went and got to see another part of the city. In all, things have been pretty good here. I miss my boys like crazy. Dave’s parents are in town this week- so hopefully Nico won’t notice how much he misses me.
My main source of transportation to work is the brown line from Kimball station to Fullerton. There is apparently work going on on the brownline somewhere so transportation is a little wonky now. But I asked a transit worker and he directed me in the right direction. No big deal.
I have a life list item to run all the bridges in Chicago. Today after work, I am going to give my first couple a try. Should be fun.
I have a list a mile long of things I still need to do. Then there are the things I want to do. 🙂
All for now. Will write more later.
So we had an okay weekend around here. Our team lost in the World Cup Final last night 😦 We’re not terribly tore up about it, because we felt like Spain really was the better team. Yesterday was pretty fun because we had some of Dave’s coworker friends over to watch the game… which gave us the final push we needed to get the house unpacked. It’s pretty much all unpacked now- so that is good. We still have a bunch of things we still need to get, but its nice not having boxes laying around.
We had a scrimmage on Saturday against a U14 boys team. The team is coached by one of the our Dads (his daughter plays for him in the Spring and us in the Summer). Overall, we did okay. We did some things well, other things not so much. It was probably too hot to play- but we had several subs. So my coaching MO was to just make sure that no one dropped dead of a heart attack on the field. Which meant that some players got a lot more playing time than they would normally.
Didnt get the kind of sleep I would normally hope for over the weekend. In addition to working at DOH, I am also TA-ing an online class… so I had to grade a bunch of their assignments over the weekend. Since it is tricky to do it with Nico at the house, I mostly tried to do it at night, which included staying up all night on Saturday night. So you know I was a cranky beast on Sunday. Dave tried to let me get some sleeps on Sunday morning, but he had a little bit of a crisis. I woke up to Dave admonishing Drake for unauthorized turtles in the house and Nico screaming because he was sitting in a dirty diaper with strawberries and blueberries in his hair. Dave had been making some breakfast when Gordon decided to start throwing up… so needless to say, he was a little frazzled.
That is about it for our weekend. I went for a walk last night with Nico and we found a play kitchen that someone had left out by the curb. Much to Dave’s chagrin, I brought it home and put it in the shed. I think all it needs is a good cleaning and a little TLC… and all the stuff you need for a play kitchen (play utensils, foods, dishes, etc). But it has a ton of doors… and a bbq grill… so that is pretty sweet, you might say. And well, you know how Nico feels about doors…. exactly. So it will be a little experiment, to see if I can rehab it to the point of it being a good toy for Nico. If not, I just have to take it back out to the curb. I will post pictures of it soon, so you can offer suggestions.
All for now.
Not much exciting to report. Except that I ruled at Stata today. I have had this problem with one of my variables, that I couldnt figure it out. Mama got it figured today. Stata just needed a little bullying: BOOM!!
About Sunday night: sorry if that was too much information about the smell coming from the kitchen. I sometimes forget that you guys dont want to know every gory detail of our crazy lives! Ooopsies!!
Unpacking is still going. Frankly, its kind of annoying. I wish that we could come back from practice and find that magic gnomes have broken in and put all the stuff away. That would be amazing. It is just tricky because when you’re unpacking in a new place, you have to put some thought into where you want stuff. Like, where does it make sense? And we also are having to deal with some new realities. Like no mudroom. At the old house it was great because there was at least a little storage place for things like, the tool box, beer brewing supplies, soccer stuff, the saw, etc. And our laundry room now is attached to a bathroom (weird). Just trying to get it figured. On the upside, the DirecTV people are coming tomorrow to set up service. Woo hoo!! Just in time for the World Cup. Speaking of which… take a gander at this (Mom, make sure that JJ sees this, he would think it is cool):
Pretty awesome, don’t you think?
Not much new to report on the Nico front. In the evenings when he has started to meltdown at dinner, he is pointing at his noise. I dont know what this means. I have been looking in it… thinking that maybe he stuck a rock up there or something. Turns out he is just being weird.
Most of the sunflowers I planted outside his room have died. I think the dogs may have had something to do with this. When they go tromping around the yard, I have noticed that they aren’t really careful about where they step 😦 So I guess I am going to have to start some more in pots. Our tomatoes, green peppers and hot pepper are going pretty well right now. I also have some watermellons going too, but I have heard that sometimes they are hard to transplant… so the jury is still out. I think I may need to fertilize them.
So, it is 10:38 pm and I am supposed to be grading. It is an assignment that needed to be graded a week ago, but I just havent gotten to it. I have been dreading doing it all weekend, which has gotten me so that I have to grade these damn things before I go to bed 😦
Not a whole lot going on. Dave and I spent most of the weekend unpacking and hanging with Nico. We coached BBUSC yesterday (only three girls there- AWESOME!!). Dave took point with Nico this morning and I went to campus for 4 glorious hours of dissertation work. I promise you, there is nothing better than walking out of Bellamy after being productive on your dissertation for four hours. It pretty much rulez!!
Looking forward to the World Cup starting soon. My teams are The Netherlands and England. The Netherlands because I am part Dutch, but also because one of my favorite GKs plays for the Orange (Edwin van der Saar). England, because I watch those boys play, week in, week out throughout the entirety of the EPL…. so an England squad is pretty much like the EPL All-Stars. In my spare-spare time, I have been reading Soccernomics on the Kindle, which is about soccer. It talks about why England always think they should win the World Cup, when in reality, they have no more right to claim the title as anyone else. It is pretty interesting.
I guess that in order to watch games, we are going to have to get the TV set up. Again, one of the things I hate about moving. Currently, I have no idea where the DirectTV box is nor the DVR… and the TV is on the floor. We haven’t had time to fully unpack and we got rid of our sofa… can’t really justify sitting around on the floor watching a whole lot of TV right now… especially since there isn’t much good tv on now, with LOST and 24 being off the air and Bones being over for the Season. Meh…
It rained cats and dogs here this weekend. Bad wind too, knocked trees down in Myers Park. In an unrelated matter, Dave and I have noticed the most foul odor coming from the kitchen. Like something died… but we can’t figure out where. Its pretty gross… we can’t really smell it outside and there doesn’t appear to be any corpses of any kind actually in the kitchen. So we think maybe something died under the house? I don’t know. Hell- can you even call someone about this? I thought about calling the Leasing Company, but my guess is that they would be jerks about the situation.
I posted this on facebook, but thought that I would put it here, because it is so adorable… look at the boy!! That is a defender, all the way!! Man!! He is already better than Rio Ferdinand.
Also, I have a new favorite thing: babies in board shorts. I like.
Alrighty, then. I guess it’s back to work for me. 😦
I dont think that we could have fit anymore into this weekend. It was off the chain!!
We started with graduation on Friday night. The “Sensational Seven” walked on Friday night. It was pretty cool. This is the second graduation that we’ve gone to… I cant remember what we did for the first one, but I was in Africa when Lizzie and Melissa’s class graduated in 2008. Last night was pretty cool… Wakulla county did not disappoint- everyone was there. The stadium was packed (weird).
Our assistant coach JW came up with a trailer to help us move on Saturday… Dave and I had that swagger because we had already moved a bunch of stuff. So when JW offered to make a third run with the trailer we passed it up, thinking “we got this.” That is false. Turns out, that we still have 2 solid days of moving ahead of us. What could we be moving you ask? I dont know… things like an under the bed tupperware container labeled “Very Important”. What is in there is anyone’s guess. But it seems important? So Dave’s friend JF came over to help provide muscle. Actual moving was short lived on Saturday though, because chatting around hotdogs grilling turned into Dave and Jessi being done early for the day.
Cue Sunday… more of the same. Turns out moving is a pain in the ass. Not only do you have to move, but you also have to clean . Double that when a baby is involved, because guess who doesnt like to pull his weight? Yeah, Nico… it was like moving with my brother (burn!! okay, just jokes…. JJ is awesome!)
So Sunday finally gives way to Monday and it looks like progress is being made. So Dave makes a run for the new house and I am left with Nico. Now you may begin to feel bad for him, because he spent most of the weekend in his “case”. His “case” is a backpack that has a little stand on it, so you can take him off your back and set him on the ground- so he is kind of standing up (“case” is actually short for Nico’s pack that comes in the case… I think its funny to talk about him being in a case). Anyways, I set him down on the floor in the hallway to fetch a bottle for him… when I hear this horrible loud crash. I run into the hallway and find that he has pulled a dustbuster vacuum off of the shelf that is 5 feet over his head. Now, I dont know if it actually hit him, but he was screaming his face off. I figured that if it had actually hit him he would have been holding his head or something… and there was no blood or cuts or anything. So maybe it just scared the hell out of him. So I give him his bottle and he goes to sleep… BTW reason #4567 that babies are awesome:
Sleeping with their legs drawn up under them and their bottoms in the air. I love it. So adorable. I digress. So then I put Nico in his case and put him on my back and we’re walking around the house. Now, mind you, having a kid in that thing=not being able to do MUCH. Generally, they aren’t good for leaning over or being lithe and agile. But I can clean okay… especially if I sit next to him. Anyways… I am walking around the house trying to find stuff I can do when I venture into one of the back (now clean) bedrooms. While I knew that Dave had cleaned the floor with the oil soap stuff, I was not aware of the slippery nature of this stuff…. and thus slipped and fell, as my mother would say, “a$$ over teakettle.” With Nico in his case on my back. Thankfully he was okay… but wow. You would think that that would be it for the day… you would be wrong my friend.
So I go to do some work outside and I set Nico in his case on the ground, which is slightly uneven. I am walking around, shoveling or something when he starts to pitch a little bit of a fit… and promptly flips over on the ground. He didnt cry or anything, I think he was a little stunned.
In any case, as you can see by about 2pm, he was over moving. If you are thinking, “hey! I recognize that guy!” You would be mistaken- that is not Dirk Kuyt, the scrappy midfielder that plays for Liverpool and Holland. This is actually a picture of Nico. I know… with that fair skin and fair hair, they look very similar 🙂
So this afternoon, we took a break from the moving (and damaging Nico) to drive down to Wakulla. One of our seniors signed her letter of intent with Johnson and Wales University to play ball. It’s pretty exciting… takes our number of kids going to college to play ball to 2 this year and 4 total (not counting a softball player who is going this year). It was really great to be there to witness her signing… I think it will definitely be good for her.
Tonight we pretty much wrapped up the moving… we have a couple of outdoor items and some cleaning stuff at the new house. So we are running by in the morning to get it. We absolutely adore the new house. Nico’s room feels like it is about twice the size of the old one. I feel like grabbing Nico’s arm and leg and spinning him around helicopter style around his room- that is how big it is.
Also contemplating all the fun stuff to do to the house… have bought a gallon of light blue paint. Essentially, I am going to make like many Bishop women before and paint anything that doesnt get away fast enough. First up is Nico’s changing table and a shelf for his room (whoot). This new house is cool because it kind of rambles around in a compact way… if that makes sense… when you come in the front door you can make an immediate left and go to the living room, dining room, kitchen area as well as the “Florida Room” (<—deserves it’s own tangent somewhere). Or you could go straight, get to Nico’s room and the office… or make an immediate right and get to our room. In any case, the house is bigger and ramblier than the old house, so it is entirely possible for your husband to come back with dinner and scare the pee out of you because you were walking out of your infant son’s pitch dark nursery room and didnt see him in the hall nor hear him come home. Not that that happened to me or anything… but I digress.
So to sum: we have moved. Nico survived (mostly). I am jumpy now. Awesome.
On an unrelated matter- I feel bad for his teachers tomorrow. As a preschool teacher, I always liked the parents who were realistic about their kids… there were many a time when a parent would bring a kid in full-on meltdown mode and just set them on the floor in the middle of the room and say, “I’m sorry. He is out of control today.” It was refreshing- especially compared to other parents who thought that a kid misbehaving was my fault… that the problem was clearly with me. So I am trying to be the former. I am trying to be real about my kid….he is probably going to be off the chain this week… he hasnt been sleeping well (new room). Plus he didnt get to bed until late (tonight). Which likely means: OFF THE CHAIN. Sorry Megan and Caitlin. My bad.
I have had my machine running stata for the last couple of days… and I am not sure what to think. I am getting results that are either, “HOLY CRAP!! THIS IS SUCH A GAME CHANGER!! GIVE JESSI BISHOP-ROYSE A PHD NOW. SHE IS AMAZING” OR “really? how is this new? or important? or worth a phd? kick her to the curb, stat.”
I HATE MOVING.
Seriously, I do. I much prefer the cross country move- you know. You load all your stuff into a vehicle… drive 10-12-14+ hours away. Sleep. Wake up the next day and unpack. All in one fell swoop. The in-town move just goes on and on and on and on. Like, “Hey! Let’s run a load of stuff over to the new house that is half a mile a way.” Annoys. Even more annoying is when you tell your husband that you ran a load of stuff over to the house and he mocks you thinking that that meant you took over a lamp (because that is all he noticed). Bleh.
Like the new house. There are parts that are weird though.
The first picture is taken just inside the entrance. The second is taken looking at the entrance. You see the fireplace. Be very jealous!! This front room is long and skinny and it is not abundantly clear where the TV and couch should go. Dave wants to put the TV in the on the other side from the doorway from the fireplace…. but where should the couch go? And what do you do about the fireplace? It would be cool to make like Cody and Nico and put our TV above the fireplace, but you cant do that with a tube TV (yes, we are the last ones in the world to get a flat-screen). Plus, that would require mechanical and technical knowledge beyond what Dave and I have.
It goes straight back to a dining room, which we probably wont use as a dining room, since the place also has an “eat-in” kitchen.
Major bonus: the living room may just be large enough to make a sewing corner for me… SSSSHHHHHH. Don’t tell Dave. I have to be very very sneaky about that.
There are two downsides to the house… no dishwasher (I know, I said that was a deal breaker… but if you saw the house you would agree that it is amazing.) We also lost our mudroom. Now, the loss is somewhat mitigated by the extra closets we get with this new place. But the mudroom/laundry room was nice because it housed dog stuff, soccer stuff, highschool soccer stuff, beer making stuff, cleaning stuff, etc. So now we have to find places for all this stuff.
But its pretty cool. Glad to be moving. Will post more pics when I can take better house photos.
Got Stata set up to run some analyses (getting close to getting over the obstacle of the multilevel analyses) getting ready to go to the gym.
Trying to get some stuffz done today. Somewhere between Tallahassee and Orlando- I lost my driver’s license. I originally thought I left it at the check in at the hotel, but it seems that I remember having it after the race (to get adult beverages-BTW nothing tastes better than a beer at 1000 am after a bike ride and some running. Of course my players who check my blog need to remember that I am 30 years old and when you’re 30 years old you can drink whatever beverages you want anytime you want them- except when you are at work. But I digress.)
My losing my driver’s license wouldnt be such a problem except that we are moving (this month) and I figured that I would kill two birds with one stone and change my address on my driver’s license. Except that now there are all these federal regulations regarding the verifying addresses and whatnot. So long story short, I refuse to go to the driver’s license place, wait in line to get a copy of my old driver’s license and then go back in two weeks to update the address. I object on principle. Of course I am sure the 5.0 won’t accept that as a reasonable excuse as to why I do not have my driver’s license.
In any case, we are getting the key to the new place today (whoot!!). We’re going to slowly start moving stuff over this week… a load or two after work here and there. Then we are getting a moving truck for the main big stuff next week. After that, it is just getting the Apakin house cleaned up. Yay!